About me...

"I am a willful, loyal, strong woman who lives a submissive lifestyle with my Dominant fiance.  Being submissive does not mean I am less of a woman, it simply means I am more of myself."

That is all you get on the About Me sidebar, so I figured I would add some more information here.


My name is Cassaundra, and I am 33 years old.  I was born in Ohio while my mother was visiting one of my aunts.  We were on a plane five days later heading back to Texas!  So, I guess you could say I am a Yankee born, but a Southerner bred.  I am short (5'0") and fluffy, with auburn hair (right now...I dye it a lot!) and dark blue eyes.


I am a freelance writer.  Unfortunately, I have to write a lot of things that just bore me to tears and generally have to force myself to write it.  There are a few irons in my fire, though, so hopefully I will be published soon and can finally just write what I want.  Of course, that is the dream of every writer, so I'm sure you've heard that before.  Just keep your fingers crossed for me, okay?

Relationship Status

I am engaged to my high school crush.  It took a lot of years and a lot of other relationships for the two of us to get to this point, but it was well worth it.  He may not be the perfect man, but he is the perfect man for me. (He always says that about me, so I figured I would paraphrase it!)  Currently, we are living apart from each other.


Yes, please!  LOL!  I am a submissive from the top of my head to the tips of my toes, and I thank God every day for it.  I am also into light bondage and am a tad masochistic.  Being a submissive has always been a part of who I am, but until I found the right Dom, I did not truly understand how much of it made me who I am.  I am now collared and belong heart, body, mind, and soul to my Dom, BD.

I guess that's enough About Me stuff.  If you are still curious about something, please just ask!

Cassaundra (with a collar!)


  1. I so love your "about me". I do wish that Blogger and Wordpress had cross-application following. I will try and find you often.

    1. Oh, I wish they did, too! There are so many people that have Wordpress blogs that I read, and the fact that I can't follow them kind of depresses me! BUT, I have found the solution to that! Every Wordpress blog that I want to follow, I just enter my email address and subscribe by email! It's great! Every time one of those people post something, I get it in my inbox! I love it! (I will be going to check out your blog as soon as I finish this comment, so be prepared to be coming to my inbox every time you post!!! :-D) If you would like, you can go to the bottom of my blog and subscribe to my posts via email! I put it at the bottom of the page so it would be easier for people to find, but you would be surprised how many people have asked for it! LOL!

      I'm so glad you loved my "about me"! I hope you find other things you like on my blog, too, and come back often! I'll either see you here, or on your blog! :-)