tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7470284511224496936.post2846661060566024751..comments2013-02-08T13:25:34.650-06:00Comments on Cassaundra With A Collar: One Dom's OutlookAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14217320603111824362noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7470284511224496936.post-20224148956521287582012-12-18T13:28:54.989-06:002012-12-18T13:28:54.989-06:00Let me say that, although I disagree with what you...Let me say that, although I disagree with what you have to say AND the fact that you posted anonymously, I still wholeheartedly support your right to say it and to believe it. I thank you for taking the time to comment. I do, however, wish you had done so using your name so that I would know who I am speaking to.<br /><br />Let me first address your comment that I "think [a woman's] place is under their husband's heel/belt." I am fairly new to this blog, so I don't have a whole lot posted, so I was able to go back and re-read every word I have written. Nowhere does it state that I believe that, which makes a lot of sense because I don't. I believe that a woman's place is wherever she is comfortable, happy, fulfilled, and loved. You seem to have missed the whole point of this post, because it very largely emphasizes the love and respect BD has for me as a person and as his mate.<br /><br />Secondly, I agree very much that feminism has done a lot of good for a lot of women, but it has also made women afraid of ridicule if what they want is what their grandparents had...a simple life with their spouse working outside the home while they take care of them from inside it. I believe that the ability to be educated is one of the most highly prized rights women have...I myself have a college degree and am working on a second. I have worked outside the home for a number of years, supporting myself and others on my salary, paying bills, "bringing home the bacon", as it were. My mother was one of the women you speak of who stayed with an abusive man because of a lack of choices, and her lack of choices encouraged me to insure that I would never be in that position myself. <br /><br />I am not trying to "lump all women into the same submissive box", and neither is BD. By stating that feminism has robbed women of their place, he is simply saying that feminism thrusts upon women the same "lack of choice" that you mentioned. It is simply that now women are forced into being the breadwinners, the Alpha Female, the ball-buster, because feminism has "given" us all the right to do that, along with the expectation that that is what we should want and something is wrong with us if we don't want it.<br /><br />Women should have the choice, and feminism has taken that away from us. Those few brave souls who are taking it back should not be ridiculed, they should be applauded.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14217320603111824362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7470284511224496936.post-72774513742241205822012-12-11T02:35:10.494-06:002012-12-11T02:35:10.494-06:00I clicked on this blog from a comment you made on ...I clicked on this blog from a comment you made on the Literotica boards. It's wonderful that you two have a great relationship, but please don't try to tell me that feminism has robbed women of "their place"--especially since you think their place is under their husbands' heel/belt. Women in the past were often forced to stay in miserable marriages to abusive men because the women had no other choice. Feminism led to greater opportunities for women--we are more educated and independent, better able to provide for ourselves and our kids. Not every woman has a submissive nature or wants to be a homemaker. There is nothing wrong with being either of those things--the backlash against stay-at-home wives/moms that happened in the early days of feminism was a bad thing. But please don't try to lump all women into the same submissive box--it just doesn't fly. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com